Bookworm
apt -y install xrdp tigervnc-standalone-server
systemctl enable xrdp

ubuntu
apt -y install xrdp tigervnc-standalone-server
systemctl enable xrdp

 create new
~startwm.sh

#!/bin/sh

# GNOME
dbus-launch --exit-with-session /usr/bin/gnome-session
# GNOME Classic
# dbus-launch --exit-with-session /usr/bin/gnome-session-classic
# KDE
# dbus-launch --exit-with-session /usr/bin/startplasma-x11
# Cinnamon
# dbus-launch --exit-with-session /usr/bin/cinnamon-session
# MATE
# dbus-launch --exit-with-session /usr/bin/mate-session
# Xfce
# dbus-launch --exit-with-session /usr/bin/startxfce4
# LXDE
# dbus-launch --exit-with-session /usr/bin/startlxde
# LXQt
# dbus-launch --exit-with-session /usr/bin/startlxqt
# Budgie
# env GNOME_SHELL_SESSION_MODE=Budgie:GNOME dbus-launch --exit-with-session /usr/bin/budgie-desktop

chmod 755 ~/startwm.sh